Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder but true beauty is when the beholdee (lady) understands that she is the beholder of her own beauty😎😎
I have understood that God made me in His own image and this body is just a house that houses the real me (my spirit). So nothing and nobody will ever make me wake up one day and feel “not beautiful”😎 Everyday before I leave the house, I look in the mirror and see the epitome of beauty staring right back at me😍😍; I mean, I see the manifestation of God’s thinking on 2 feet. And after I see that, I make Word declarations. I declare & boldly confess that I’m walking in favour, joy, peace, wisdom, strength, progress, prosperity and success.

Papa God took time to create me……and even knew I would be here @ this particular time and made provisions beforehand. How can I feel ugly??? He loved me so much that He even gave His Son to die for me. How else would I want Him to show me His love?😎😎 Why would there be a desperate need to feel cared for, by another human being? Hehe, I understand the role of relationships and companionship but you cannot rely on another human being to complete you or fill that void that only God has the ability to fill. Otherwise, that’s why we have a lot of “nagging or overly clinging” men & women around the world😳
I think I’m so comfortable with knowing that God and I form the majority. I mean even if my closest friend or my loved one woke up today and decided that they didn’t want anything to do with me anymore, I’ll not be moved😂😂😂❤❤ It is their loss. I am God’s carrier, the definition of blessings. I am also indestructible because I’m made of the Word of God!!

Soo, girl stop letting small things affect how you feel. Is it a pimple that appeared on your face?😂 That doesn’t change your “level of beauty & awesomeness” Do you feel like your eyes are too big? Tell yourself, with those big eyes, you’ll be able to see the land that Papa God has given you…. Remember God told Abraham, as far as your eyes can see. Don’t give anybody an opportunity to make you feel insecure about any part of your body. When you accept (coz it’s a choice) to agree you have an insecurity, you insult the intelligence of God because to Him,you’re the BEST!!!

Were you dumped? Girl,you’re not the first one😂😂😂😂 So that time that you are spending crying and talking about how sad you are, please call a party and celebrate!! In Christ, we DON’T lose💃💃💃 Even when it seems like we have lost, we are gaining. But next time, do things differently to avoid getting the same results, giving the Holy Spirit, our Perfect guide and teacher His place…..I don’t believe my weight or my outlook should influence my beauty hehe I think that’s why my body fluctuates and we laugh about it 😂😂 But if I feel some type of way about it, then I work on it. Not out of pressure though…..Understand that you are the best version of yourself and nobody will ever be like you! Be confident of that and derive your confidence & esteem from the Word of God!! And of course, comparing yourself with another person who is completely on a different race in life is detrimental to your focus & progress. Understand why you’re here on earth and let your thoughts, words, actions and choices reflect that! In short, “live in your own world.” Be “so lost” in your purpose and the fulfilment from that, will be indescribable because you’ll be walking in the perfect will of God.

Finally, refuse to let insecure people project their insecurities on you. Misery tends to love company. Don’t allow yourself to take negativity from anyone because negative/hurt people hurt others. Somebody who tells you that you don’t look good in a certain area, most of the times, normally feel the same way in that area of their life too. So don’t give an audience to that.
Make the Word of God your best friend. Decide to deliberately study the Word so that you know why you’re here on earth at this particular time. Remember you’re God’s Masterpiece and only Him, knows your purpose. So consult Him, please😍😍😍😍

I love you all,❤❤❤
Nexcellent.